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SHREVEPORT, La. — For many expectant mothers, breastfeeding begins long before a baby is born, with plans and expectations about how the experience will unfold. But health experts say feeding journeys often look different than expected, especially when medical complications or early challenges arise.

As part of National Breastfeeding Month, KTBS contributor and registered dietitian Courtney Butts explored the realities many families face when breastfeeding doesn't go according to plan.

Klorisa Withers, a lactation consultant and registered nurse with CHRISTUS St. Michael in Texarkana, says it's important for mothers to understand that every baby and every feeding journey is unique.

“When moms have high expectations, it can set them up for failure,” Withers said. “Having moms understand that there's more than one way of doing things is a big key.”

According to Withers, some babies may struggle with latching, coordinating swallowing and breathing, or adapting after spending time in a neonatal intensive care unit. Even when breastfeeding is progressing well, exhaustion and frustration can make the process difficult during the first few weeks.

“I always tell them, yes, breastfeeding is natural, but so is walking and talking,” Withers said. “We don't learn it in just one day.”

Withers encourages parents not to compare their experiences to what they see on social media or to other families' journeys. She also recommends seeking help from a lactation consultant if challenges arise, particularly after the initial support from family and friends has faded.

“Don't hesitate to reach out to get that help and support,” she said.

Health professionals say there is no single right way to breastfeed, and success looks different for every family.